NLP Memory Manipulation - Change the Content of your Memories

By Chris Harrison - Posted July 2007

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Exercise 2:

Go through the people who bother you, until you find one, who you remember as having a really uncomfortable voice; A voice that makes you cringe, an overpowering voice, or one that sounds like a dental drill.

So what happens if you change their voice?

If you remember someone who has a deep and authoritative voice, what happens when you imagine them giving you a hard time while sounding like Donald Duck?

Just speeding someone up until they sound like one of the munchkins is also quite fun.

If there is someone who tires you out because there voice just seems to bash you over and over, then try slowing them right down.

Think of other ways you can change someone's voice and try them out to work out which changes effect you the most.

Exercise 3:

So, now lets put it all together.

Remember five people who you have trouble dealing with.

Think about the next time you are likely to have to deal with them.

Using Visual and Auditory hallucinations, make them easier to deal with.

Just to give you a start, here are some ideas of changes that may make people easier to deal with.

Visual Changes

  • Clown Nose, Clown Clothes, Clown Shoes
  • Dress them like Shirley Temple - if you don’t remember …
  • Make them wobbly
  • Change their hair - badly
  • Bloke in a dress - if you're British - think 'Little Britain'
  • Big flat feet
  • how about a big perm
  • Handlebar moustache – great, especially on women

And now for the auditory changes:

Auditory Changes

  • Make them sound like Donald Duck
  • One word – Helium
  • Add a soundtrack to the memory –
                Benny Hill is always good
                Always look on the bright side of life
  • Give them a stutter or make them hesitant

So far we have dealt with changing the content via changing the visual, and auditory elements.

So can we perform a similar exercise in the kinesthetic modality?


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Powerful around women?

Posted  May 14, 2010 at 10:40

Making yourself feel more powerful around people you find intimidating is good and useful, but doesn't feel right in the situation where I am trying to talk to a woman who makes me feel uncomfortable. What would you use for that?

Anonymouse, Near the cheese

Custom States

Posted  May 28, 2010 at 05:33

Maybe you should check the article on NLP state management elsewhere on the site and create yourself a custom state. Put something like playfullness in to prevent you being too serious about the whole thing. Playing around with different states is really cool and a good way to build some flexibility into your behaviors.

Chris Harrison, UK

No Title

Posted  October 15, 2010 at 20:22

Great

Amazing article

Posted  November 15, 2010 at 08:17

Amazing article. Thanks for writing it.

Jolly, US

Cheers

Posted  November 15, 2010 at 13:32

Thanks for your feedback Jolly.

Glad you enjoyed it!

Chris Harrison, UK

Simple

Posted  November 23, 2010 at 18:42

This lesson was simple, yet filled with so much information. And reader friendly information at that. Excellent lesson, thank you so much.

rrobigold, Front Door

Thanks rrobigold

Posted  November 23, 2010 at 21:19

Good to see the information was of interest.

Chris Harrison, UK

Nice Article

Posted  December 27, 2010 at 13:38

thanks for this article. It would be nice to have a forum on this site.

Sasha, Toronto

Thanks Sasha

Posted  December 31, 2010 at 10:30

Glad you enjoyed the article.

I have been wondering about adding a forum for a while, so this may be something I do when I get around to it.

Chris Harrison, UK

Great Article

Posted  November 9, 2011 at 20:48

Thanks for a simple, readable,article that engages all the senses. Freeing the mind from the manipulation of memory, what's beyond this?

Thanks

Posted  December 19, 2011 at 11:12

This was a great article and I especially like the explanation of the V.A.K. model done with such ease.

Thanks again.

Thanks

Posted  April 20, 2012 at 23:12

'In a sense you are remembering what happened in a manner that allows you to not have to question what you think about yourself.' - Could you explain the last part of this statement: '... that allows you to not have to question what you think about yourself.'

Sue

Sue

Posted  April 25, 2012 at 19:56

Clarification

What I meant by that phrase isn't really important to the NLP process, but when you remember something from your past you tend to remember it in a way that best fits with your beliefs about yourself.

If you believed you had no confidence but had a memory where you were really outgoing and enjoyed yourself then this would be at odds with your belief.

It's likely that when you remembered the event you would do so with some kind of mental filtering - either you'd remember the event as if you were less confident than you actually were or there would be something else given prominence in your recollection of the memory that gives you an 'excuse' for the confident behavior. An example would be that you remembered being quite drunk when you weren't.

Hope that Helps.

Chris Harrison, UK
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