Must I like my NLP Practitioner? |
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Many people would argue that if an NLP practitioner cannot get really good rapport with their clients, then they are not good at NLP. This is based on the idea that rapport is one of the most important skills within NLP, so if you don't have that skill, then you don't really have anything. But … If a practitioner is highly skilled, they may have a reason not to use rapport. There may be a good reason they want to make you feel differently about them. For instance they may want to make you feel uncomfortable or they may be antagonistic. Now, admittedly this is not very common, and if you are unsure then if you are comfortable it makes sense to mention it at the end of the session. On the other hand, if a practitioner acts in a way that makes you doubt their skills or feel that you cannot trust them and you don't feel you can discuss it with them, then they are not for you. |
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